doing my damnedest to free myself of the “just gotta get through this week” “only x more days til the weekend” mindset & learn to appreciate each day for whatever it is lest i be driven to madness
so what if tomorrows monday i have leftovers & maybe this week i will make soup. maybe ill see a cat. maybe each day will show me something worthwhile even if im tired & maybe i can enjoy it
if u are negative on this post im blocking u ! some of us are trying to get better
My very sweet and VERY Catholic coworker: this new abortion law… they’re saying God doesn’t believe in killing the innocent babe to save the wicked mother…. Well I have some news for them about what he did to his own son.
Me: oh my god.
Her: honey. Exactly.
#*snort*#what a nice lady#also OP’s tags say said co-worker is a former nun#which is just delightful
In my defense your honor I had really good music on and it made me want to do something evil
was told to straighten my posture and align my heels. i now stand corrected
the reviews are in
Parents don’t beat their kids because they’ve been beaten themselves, they do it because they want control, terror, obedience and power that violence gives them.
Parents don’t shame their kids for being ungrateful because they want more gratitude; they do it became they don’t want to do more than absolute minimum and hate to be asked to.
Parents don’t force their kids into ungrateful, bad conditioned and heavy work to teach “responsibility” and"work habits", they do it cause they don’t wanna do the work and humiliating a kid with calling it a chore is easier. If they wanted to create work habits they would offer rewards for it.
Parents don’t emotionally manipulate children into believing nobody would love them to “force them to live in reality”, they do it to keep the child too terrified and dependent to ever be able to look for love outside of parents.
Parents don’t fly into raging tantrums because they’re disrespected and hurt, they do it to make it too dangerous to stand up to them, they enjoy the power their rage obtains, to never be questioned, resisted or disobeyed. Its the ultimate power to always be cruel, selfish and wrong, yet never questioned or stood up to.
Parents don’t keep you in suspense and anxiety over what they’re gonna do to you because you deserve it or to make you a better person, they do it because they enjoy the power of torture and seeing terror and pain in children’s eyes.
Parents don’t overpunish, overplay concern, make themselves victims or deny the child’s feelings out of love. They do it out of greed, entitlement, neglect and contempt.
Good parents never do any of this. Only abusive parents could even think of doing this to children.
okay unrelated but what was the funniest red flag in ur worst relationship
the whiplash of these notes
Reading the notes like
I feel so sorry for all of you. How are people out here being like this
